Traits of a Good Parent

What are the traits of a good parent? If you're new to the idea of parenting or care to check in on your parenting techniques, you may find yourself asking this very question.

Children thrive with love.

The simple answer is, there are no set guidelines for creating or becoming a good parent. For many people, parenting is a learning game; most of what you'll learn will come naturally with trial and error.

To prepare youself for the job ahead or to remind yourself of your parenting priorities, the following traits of a good parent may serve as a helpful guide.

Parenting styles differ greatly. What works for one set of parents may not feel right for the other. Parenting styles range from conservative and firm, to attachment and child led. Although every type of parenting style is unique in its own right, there are many distinguishable traits of a good parent that are common no matter the style.

Ever wonder what turns a perfectly normal child into an emotional wreck? Oftentimes, it is the lack of listeners. Children speak in whispers. The next time you are in a public area, feel free to watch a small child and observe how long it takes for the average parent to respond to their general comments, whether those be complaints or inquisitive questions.

If you take the time to listen to your child, you're telling her at a young age that her thoughts and concerns are important to you. Creating this environment helps your child build confidence and self-esteem. Withdrawn children experiencing depression or self doubt need a trustworthy outlet in which they can share their fears and challenges. If you can't fulfill your child's need for openness and discussion, enlist someone who can. Be it a family member or counselor, children need active listeners in order to thrive.

Although patience is a virtue, it's hard to keep when you're dealing with the demands of children and their tempers. Try to practice patience daily with your children. Take the time to help them tie their shoes, rather then rush them out the door. Let them ride ahead of you on their bike, even if it means you'll have to pedal a few steps behind. Life travels quickly enough. Take the time to revel in the moment and enjoy the magic of childhood.

There is no greater gift you can give your children than unconditional love. Everyone deserves to feel truly loved for who he is, no matter what. When you show love to your children, you strengthen their ability to love in return.

Don’t set limits or boundaries on your love. Avoid withholding love for personal gain. Don't ever use your children as a pawn in your relationships. Children of divorced parents often struggle with emotions and take a portion of the blame for a failed marriage because of this.

Children are a gift. No matter the circumstance, learn to be thankful for them and show your love without limitation.

There's a reason so many people crave their mother's chicken noodle soup when they are ill. A nurtured child feels safe and content in the refuge of their parent's love and home. Take the time to nurture your child's body, mind and soul.

Make bath time an experience with bubbles and toys. Keep children warm and cozy. Give hugs. Create a nurturing environment filled with healthy food and comfortable places. Now is the time to pamper your child.

Be it a good book shared on the couch or mixing up a batch of brownies to bake in the oven, children need quality time with their parents daily. Go for walks, share a movie, or play board games on a rainy day. Even if it's only an hour, make room, and make it a priority.

Stick up for your kids and be their greatest fan. The world is filled with bad guys and bullies, and it's your job to be in your kids' corner. Protect them from dangerous circumstances. Keep a watchful eye on the people that you surround your children with. If you feel a circumstance or a behavior pattern in another adult or child is affecting your child, take note. Parental instincts are very strong. You've got one shot at being a parent, be on guard and protect them with all you've got.

There will come a bittersweet time when all parents have to let go of the training wheels and watch their child explore the rocky road ahead.

Trust in your parenting.

No matter your child's mistakes, love unconditionally. No matter his woes, protect him when you can. No matter his distance, listen for his call.

The greatest gift of parenting is that it's a lifelong relationship. Nurture it, and enjoy every minute. Be patient. One day, you'll wish you could relive every moment.

• Children Playing
• 10 Parenting Tips
• Halloween Trivia for Kids
• Bible Trivia for Kids
• Trivia Questions for Kids

• Disney Princess Coloring Pages
• Teen Birthday Party Ideas
• Pros and Cons of School Uniforms
• Children's Birthday Cake Ideas
• Kids' Hair Styles

• Building Self-Esteem: Interview with Bob Livingstone
• Category:Child Behavior, Development & Parenting
• Divorced Parents
• Preschool Behavior Charts
• Types of Parenting Styles