Special Needs Children

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The parents of special needs children will tell you that raising a son or daughter with physical, mental, or emotional disabilities presents both challenges and unexpected joys.

Special Needs Children

Overcoming the Shock

If your child has recently been diagnosed with special needs, it’s not uncommon to feel like the world has suddenly grinded to a halt. Even if you’ve been suspecting a problem for several months, having an official diagnosis often leads to a mixture of anger, grief, fear, and confusion.

How do you get past this shock? It’s not going to be easy, but remembering the following tips can help:

  • Take life one day at a time. If your child is still in diapers, it’s too early to worry about life after high school.
  • Don’t be afraid to express your emotions. If friends and family ask how you’re doing, don’t hesitate to admit that you’re scared and in need of assistance. Asking for support will make parenting much less difficult.
  • Make time for yourself. Parenting a special needs child can be overwhelming, but the job is much easier when you don’t neglect your own health and well-being. A balanced diet, regular exercise, and plenty of sleep will make it easier to deal with the challenges on the road ahead.

Getting the Support You Need

As the parent of a special needs child, you’ll need to learn as much as you can about your child’s physical, mental, or emotional disability. Ask questions at your child’s medical appointments, visit your local library, and conduct your own online research. The best thing you can do for your special needs child is to become an advocate for his/her well-being.

If your child is under three years of age, he/she will be eligible for early intervention services. If your child is enrolled in a public school, he/she will be eligible for special education services. To learn more about what resources are available for special needs children in your area, visit the NICHCY’s Directory of State Resources.

Joining a support group of parents dealing with similar situations can also be helpful. Ask your child’s care provider about resources in your area or use the Children’s Disability List directory to find a web-based group.

The Joys of Parenting a Special Needs Child

If you child was recently diagnosed with special needs, you may be wondering what your future holds. The poems listed below are popular among the parents of special needs children for their candid portrayal of what it’s like to raise a disabled child:

  • Welcome to Holland is a poem that is often used to describe how parenting a special needs child provides many unexpected joys.
  • Heaven’s Very Special Child talks about the many blessings of a special needs child.
  • The Special Mother describes how God has a plan for the mothers of special needs children.
  • Don’t Quit provides parents with the encouragement they need during difficult moments.

Additional Information about Special Needs Children

If you would like to learn more about parenting a special needs child, please check out the following resources:

In addition to the websites mentioned above, Amazon.com offers a number of books devoted to the topic of parenting a special needs child. For example:


 


Comments

Coley, This is an excellent idea! Thanks for sharing!-Susie

-- Contributed by: Susie1506

I don't know how old this comment is, but I had an idea about the Dora shoes. It's a little involved but I think this child is probably worth it. :)

Why not buy a pair of cheapie white canvas shoes like Keds or an off brand. Also buy some printable iron on sheets. You can find them in office stores or craft stores. Find a Dora image the child likes, save it to your computer, and then re-size it so that it would fit on the shoe. Print the image on to an iron sheet following the manufacturer's instructions and then iron it on to the shoe following the instructions. I've never used the printable irons on on shoes but I have on t-shirts, bags, etc and they hold up great and work well!

-- Contributed by: Coley

Deb, When I can't find what I'm looking for, I usually look on eBay. You could also advertise in the classified section of your newspaper. -Susie

-- Contributed by: Susie1506
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