Parenting an ADHD Child

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Those who are already dealing with this issue realize that parenting an ADHD child can be challenging. If your child has been diagnosed as ADHD, you are not alone. There are numerous support groups that can be found online and maybe even in your area. The more aware you are of the many aspects of this diagnosis, the better you will be able to advocate for your child.

Parenting an ADHD child can be challenging at times.

What is ADHD?

According to WebMD ADHD, which refers to ‘’attention deficit hyperactivity disorder’’, is a common developmental and behavioral disorder. It is characterized by poor concentration, distractibility, hyperactivity, and impulsiveness that are inappropriate for the child's age. Children and adults with ADHD are easily distracted by sights and sounds in their environment, cannot concentrate for long periods of time, are restless and impulsive, or have a tendency to daydream and be slow to complete tasks.

Diagnosing ADHD

One of the major controversies surrounding ADHD is an incorrect diagnosis of the disorder. Mood disorders and learning disabilities are often overlooked or simply labeled as something else. When this happens, parenting an ADHD child can be even more difficult. Fortunately, the American Academy of Pediatrics has compiled a list of symptoms. However, the AAP has wisely pointed out that nearly every child will exhibit some of these symptoms at one time or another. They also note that true ADHD symptoms will continue to appear on a regular basis. Symptoms to look for include ‘’’inattention’’’, ‘’’hyperactivity’’’, and ‘’’impulsiveness’’’.

Inattention

Parenting an ADHD child involves asking yourself some questions.

  • How easily distracted and/or unorganized is your child?
  • Does he or she daydream or lose focus of a conversation easily?
  • Do you notice your child having a difficult time paying attention or staying on task?
  • Is he or she forgetful?

Hyperactivity

Hyperactivity can refer to many symptoms.

  • Does your child always seem ‘’on the go’’?
  • Is it difficult for him or her to sit still for any period of time, even when the occasion demands it?
  • Does your child talk almost continuously?

Impulsiveness

How impulsive is your child? While of course, most children exhibit some impulsiveness, does your child carry it to an extreme?

  • Is he or she impatient and unable to wait?
  • Does your child interrupt others or call out answers before it is appropriate to do so?
  • Does he or she often blurt out inappropriate statements?

Treating ADHD

Parenting an ADHD child means understanding what treatments are available and making sure those treatments are working for your child. Keep in mind that there isn’t one exact cure-all, and every child is different. A treatment which might work wonders for the child up the street might be inappropriate for your child. It’s up to you to work closely with your pediatrician, teachers, and other caregivers to ensure that your child is getting the best treatment and care.

  • ’’’Behavior Management’’’-For some, parenting an ADHD child simply means learning how to help him or her manage inappropriate behaviors. By working closely with a psychiatrist, counselor, or other professional, you can help your child recognize when his behavior is unacceptable. At the same time, you can also learn techniques for emphasizing desired behaviors as well.
  • ’’’Counseling’’’-Many children’s behavior problems improve significantly once they enter some type of counseling. Counselors can help children understand and change their behavior, while at the same time they can also help parents learn how to manage and cope with their child.
  • ’’’Medication’’’-While not all children diagnosed with ADHD need medication, many do respond well to medicinal help. Certain medicines have been found to help children function on a much calmer level. The results of successful medication are not only noticed at home but also at school and in many social areas as well.

Parenting an ADHD Child

Finally, parenting an ADHD child can make parents feel isolated. Many mistakenly believe that they are the only ones facing this problem. However, there are a multitude of children who have been diagnosed with ADHD, and help is available. The following Web sites will give you additional help and resources. If you have any questions about whether your child might be exhibiting the symptoms of ADHD, however, please contact your pediatrician.


 


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