Identical Twins

Twin Talk

Young twins will sometimes develop and share their own unique language. Parents have sometimes observed their twins talking to each other and appearing to understand each other; however, no one else knows what it is they are saying. This is known as 'twin talk'.

Dressing…Alike or Not

Some parents choose to dress their twins alike...or not. Some twins choose to dress alike…or not. Preferences vary for each situation, and the cost for clothes can become more expensive because in either case both twins need outfits. There are several ways to save money for clothes.

• Shop at thrift stores.
• Family/friends hand-me-downs.
• Clearance sales.

Unique Personalities

Encourage each child's independence. Although your identical duo might have a lot of things in common, they will each develop their own individual personalities. One might be quiet while the other is very talkative. One might crawl faster than the other. One might be more active while the other is more laid back. They will like and dislike various things. They can approach problems differently, and they can learn things at different paces.

Unique Interests

Twins' interests might be very similar or they might be very different. Children have lots of time to spend, so encourage them to spend it in a positive manner. Hobbies can include music, dancing, sports, martial arts, or crafts.

Time Well Spent

Set aside quality time to spend with the children individually. Let each child choose a different story to read, and spend a few minutes every night reading with them. Let one child spend time with another family member while taking turns with the other child to go to the park, movies, or restaurant.

Unique Bond

It has been reported that twins experience a unique or telepathic bond. Separated twins have said that they can feel what the other twin is feeling. Some separated twins exhibit the same mannerisms despite different environmental factors or despite never meeting.

Ideal Strollers

Parents of identical twins have a unique choice to make: they can choose to have a side-by-side stroller, or they can choose to have a stroller where one twin sits behind the other twin. Although the side-by-side strollers allow the twins more space, the front and back strollers are easier to move around since they are not as wide. Regardless of which stroller you choose, always make sure to keep children safe by buckling them into their seats and never leave children unattended in a stroller.

Gifts for Twins

A great gift for twins is the book on DVD, How to Share a Grape by Trisket and Bisket. It allows more than one child to read at the same time and it has a wonderful message about sharing.

Identical Twins Summary

Twins share a lot of things including differences. Parents of twins will have a unique way of doing things, but the most important thing they can do is to spend time with them.